Ep.44 Producer's Pick: Who Is A Mature Man? (Part 2)

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Episode Summary

In Part 2 of this 2 part episode, I continue the discussion with Pastor Courtney Morrison who concludes the topic, 'Who is a Mature Man?'. He dives deeper and gives us practical tips for better relationship decision making. 

Key Takeaways

• Some men who are submitted to God are wounded and may not yet be mature enough or ready for marriage (5:41)
• Men lack accountability; sage men who will help mentor them and help them to mature from an early stage (9:04)
• Don't unfairly judge a man based on the stage that he's at. Acknowledge that he's unable to give you what you need (10:31)
• A  mature man won't immediately think of cheating. He's likely to find  some constructive way to deal with his urges instead (17:31)
• Research suggests that women don't support men and don't create a safe space for their male partners to operate in (20:52)

Top Quotes

• Even  those of us men sometimes who are submitted to God, have anger issues,  father issues, childhood issues, lack of success issues, again,  contributing towards us being wounded (5:41)
• Our  men who don't get pass the gibbor stage end up in prisons because of  their warrior spirit. Our phallic men if they don't pass that end up in  prison because of rape. abusing minors...women (9:40)
• You  have to as women be able to identify also the stage (of the maturity of  a man) and know whether or not it's being directed in a good direction  (11:17)
• Recognizing that he's loving this woman as his own body was able to treat her as his own body (14:49)
• Men  will stay at the domino table till 2am in the morning, because they  don't they can win the argument. They don't feel that they are in a safe  place to talk freely (22:15)
• Allowing  him to open up and talk without feeling as if he is being judged or  he's being forced to do so....allowing him to make calls on situations  that even if he's wrong...he's not torn to bits (23:56)

Resources

• The Masculine Journey
• Taming of the Shrew
• Kingdom Man: Every Man's Destiny, Every Woman's Dream
• Scriptures: Malachi 4:6

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