Ep.31 The Chat Room: 'Weh Di Real Man Dem Deh?' (Part 2)

Today I'm going into The Chat Room where women from around the world join me in my virtual studio to discuss the topic of the week. The conversations are really eye-opening and we usually uncover nuggets to help us all live this single life like a boss.

Episode Summary

In Part 2 of this 2 part episode, Stephanie and Shadee share their views on the topic, 'Weh Di Real Man Dem Deh?' or in English 'Where Are The Real Men?'. They continue the discussion on what we should expect from a partner, stressing the importance of character and of making God-based choices. This episode was so good that after saying goodbye and doing my wrap ups twice, we started a new conversation.

Key Takeaways

• God  looks at character and heart to see if He can trust the person to do  according to His will, and that is so even if the person falls from time  to time (5:54)
• Whilst character is the primary area of focus for God, money, possessions and the body are also important (7:18)
• The  ability to be joyful in situations when they don't work in our favor,  and having peace and being able to celebrate in the midst of adversities  are important attributes of a suitor (10:13)
• Don't overlook men because they don't fit our preconceptions (11:34)
• In due season when He (God) sees fit, the real man will come along (12:18)

Top Quotes

• It's  about...I (the man) have a good heart, what I have for even my wife to  be or my girlfriend is, I think towards her good. I want to, you know,  bring that into her reality (3:21)
• God...will  bring situations and circumstances as a test and as a trial to see how  we would treat these tests or these situations. And that is part of the  character building (4:42)
• Accept what God has for you work with what God has given unto you...don't overlook the man (11:39)
• The moment we recognize that this is not who God has in mind for us, we should be willing to switch (14:14)
• If  the world has a perspective, and it is a dominant perspective, and we  keep following it, then we might have to check ourselves because the  world is usually contrary to God (18:37)
• What  is to be accomplished from this marriage? What is this couple  supposed  to do? You know, Mary come together. Paul come together because it was  ordained by God (24:20)

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