Ep.30 Producer's Pick: From Me-ology to Marriage-ology (Me-ology Part 2)

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Episode Summary

Today's episode is Part 2 of an episode on Me-ology Theology with Pastor Tania Case. One of my listeners (who chose to remain anonymous) asked, "how do I move from being me-focused to marriage ready?". That is, from Me-ology Theology to Marriage-ology. She was eager to hear and suggested that we do part 2 of Me-ology Theology today. So here are Pastor Tania's tips on how to move from being too me-focused and me-centered as single women to becoming marriage material.

Key Takeaways

Find a healthy marriage that you respect and are encouraged by and honor it (1:45)
Become a helper to others, a listening ear, serve others (3:05)
Choosing to not communicate because you're angry kills marriages (5:20)
Often times we find that we have a problem trusting God if we are very selfish because we aren't sure that He will take care of us (8:34)
Let your guard down. Let yourself be loved and love others (9:47)

Top Quotes

Giving is contrary to selfishness and (you should) give of yourself in a way that you know you're challenged (3:32)
We are so used to our ideology...but...if we allow these these walls rather, to start coming down...you'll start getting a check, I need to work on that right there (4:53)
Start tasting your words. Start considering how they impact others and say no, I would not want that for myself, so I don't want it for you (6:37)
You're the one with the power to release people to their destiny. And if you think just you, you will never experience having someone come back to you and say, You are the place where this started in my life (9:29)
I am a student of my husband. I am a student of my friends. I study them, I get a picture. I keep a file a mental file on them. I know where you should be. I know what you're after (15:05)
It is just the most wonderful thing that we could ever do for others is to love them and not love them for a moment (15:48)

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Tania Case

Pastor, Author, Counsellor & Entrepreneur

Tania Case has been merrily married to husband Errington Case for 20 years producing three children. She graduated from Georgia State University, with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Broadcast News Journalism, and a minor in Creative Writing. Her love for Journalism led her to the newsroom of Love 101 FM Radio and Love Television in Jamaica, where she worked as a news writer and news reporter. Mrs. Case served as a host of the Word Power television program aired on Television Jamaica for over 16 years. Errington and Tania have served together as Pastors at Fellowship Tabernacle for seven years. They have also passionately served the Mosquito Valley Red Hills area in St. Andrew through their outreach children’s ministry - Mountain Movers Children’s Club.

Pastor Tania has authored the books “Forming Faith: Owning My Christianity” geared at college age students and young Christians and the recently published “Wife Material” which prepares single women for a flourishing marriage while mentoring young wives. She has produced numerous reading material and books for the Jamaica’s primary schools through the Ministry of Education’s Literacy 123 Programme. Her mission is to touch the world like JESUS touched her life.