Aug. 28, 2020

Ep.20 Producer's Pick: 'Gimme Di Benz V (Part 2) Plus Behind The Scene Chatter

Ep.20 Producer's Pick: 'Gimme Di Benz V (Part 2) Plus Behind The Scene Chatter

Producer’s Pick is a bonus episode. In it we dissect the line of a movie, song, quote, social media post, Scripture, or topic you suggest.

Episode Summary

Today’s episode is Part 2 of a 2 part episode. In the first 15 minutes I speak with Kadia, Kavan and Damani about setting goals, choosing Mr. Right, and recognizing Mr. Wrong. However, the remainder of our discussion was our behind the scene chatter. Yes, we were actually done. I did my wrap and said my goodbyes when the conversation started all over again and got even sweeter. 

Key Takeaways

  • A man won't change because of a woman but because he chooses to and because the Holy Spirit helps him to (2:43)
  • When  you repetitively find yourself in these situations (with men) you need  to reevaluate your habits and patterns and make the necessary changes  (10:11)
  • The society treats men as though they are a prize to be had and while doing that they undermine the value of women (12:05)
  • Christian women are more appealing to men because the mortality of non-Christian men and women is far gone (21:16)

Top Quotes

  • You have to just avoid the situations that that from the get go, from the jump, look shady (1:40)
  • You  have to be in relationship with the person who they are now, right,  because the truth is their potential may never manifest...or it might  take 10 years (2:23)
  • You need to have a clear idea of what it is that you'd want from a dating type of relationship (3:44)
  • God put in place safeguards to protect you...one such safeguard is do not be unequally yoked (5:01)
  • Just  understanding what God says. delving deep into His word, and applying  the parameters that He gives will really act as a safeguard (9:00)
  • To really protect our women, we need to train our men (10:38)
  • Women  have been so exposed to so many broken and damaged men or men with so  many messed up values that when a good man is there...they are not  attracted to that (24:00)

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Kavan Allen

Husband, Father, Youth Pastor, Author & Prophetic Minister

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Kadia Allen

Banking Professional, Events Planner & Youth Leader

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Damani Brown

Creator of the Adulting 101 Conference, CEO of TIM Ltd. & IT Manager