Ep.15 Producer's Pick: 'Gimme Di Benz V: The Low Down on Men Who Hunt Church Girls (Part 1)

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Episode Summary

In Part 1 of this 2 part episode. I speak with Kadia, Kavan and Damani who share on why men hunt church girls...the perceived benefits and advantages from the man's perspective and the red flags Christian women ought to look out for. 

Key Takeaways

• Church Girls are perceived as wife material (2:43)
• Some Church Girls can be more liberal than secular girls (3:58)
• Church Girls don't see or maybe even ignore the red flags and will even sometimes ignore the Holy Spirit (12:46)
• The Church needs to allow single women to freely share their challenges so they can receive the appropriate guidance (14:14)
• A man will put on a show (trick a woman) and wait years just to get what he wants (25:16)

Top Quotes

• She's not as exposed to the things that are happening in the world so he can go in there and manipulate her more easily (3:11)
• A  woman in a church should at least be aspiring to not be sexually  active, not cheat, lie, some of things that they have experienced (6:16)
• Some of the church women grown in the church just don't know some of the signs that other women spot a mile away (8:09)
• The  Bible says the heart is deceitful above all things. When it comes to  matters of the heart it takes a special kind of self awareness (13:28)
• The  idea of the kind of person we want to marry, we don't necessarily, well some women might not necessarily see that in their church circle  (18:11)
• A  lot of men in the church can have some of those, you know, undesirable  traits that men outside the church have. So if they have it why not why not date somebody outside the church (23:10)

Resources

• If you're trying to get over a bad relationship: From I Do to I Don't: Overcoming the Wounds of a Bad Relationship
• Checklist: 7 Questions to Help Decide If He's Mr. Right
• IG Blog Post: Reject the Counterfeit
• IG Blog Post: Problem is, You Chose the Wrong Man

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