I LOVE #love and #valentinesday. What I don't like is how much time some #singlewomen spend hating the fact they're #single for #valentinesday.
I mean I get it. Companionship is great, getting flowers and gifts from your partner on #valentinesday is super great. However, being #single isn't bad. In fact it should be celebrated. It's something we should be making the most of until we find our Mr. Right. But since so many of us single women get overwhelmed on #valentinesday, I wanted to share what I usually do in celebration of my singleness, the day after #valentinesday.
1. I buy myself flowers, chocolates and/or take myself to dinner because #selflovematters and is so under-rated. Plus we can't truly love others if we don't first #loveourselves.
2. I #motivate the heck out of my day, reminding myself of all the great things God says about me.
3. I spend time making sure I'm where God wants me to be at and I work on fixing what He wants me to fix about me.
4. I assess my #relationshipgoals to make sure they're realistic, purposeful and god-aligned. it's so easy when you're #single to focus on the wrong things and develop selfish habits and soulish thoughts.
5. Finally, I #selfreflect because too often we want the perfect man but don't spend enough time becoming the perfect woman for that man. And, I'm all about making the most of my #singleness to become the kind of woman he deserves.
So those are the things I usually focus on the day after #valentinesday; the day I celebrate 'Making The Most Of My Singleness Day'. What do you do? Or maybe there's something that you never thought of but realize after reading that you probably should be doing? Either way, let me know.
Feb. 16, 2021
Happy Making The Most of My Singleness Day
Tricia-Anne Y. Morris
Host / Author / Coach / Transformational Speaker
I am a single woman from Jamaica who for a long time lived recklessly, made bad decisions, got into crazy relationships, dated too many persons (sometimes even at the same time), made money and lost it, and oh let’s not forget the anger issues and insecurities, though I didn’t know these were issues at the time. Then I became a Christian and my transformation began. I took a break from life for a little bit and went on a journey of healing, deliverance and restoration.
After a few years I was in a much better place and started to do life differently. I wrote my first book, launched the Smart, Fabulous & Single Conference, trained as a purpose, success and business coach, and much more. Since then I’ve been living my single life successfully, God’s way. My mindset is different now. I’m more confident about who I am and whose I am. So that even when I fall, I’m so grounded in God as my Father and King that I get right back up.
I want to share my experiences, tips, stories from others, and a whole lot more with you in this podcast so you can grow too....so we can grow together. Because, it's a process and there's so much more for us to learn.
Prayer: Release Your Rain
Lord let your rain come in like a flood. Let your train fill the temple. Let your presence fall and your rain overtake me. Release your rain O Lord!
Rain in my family O God. Rain in my house. Rain in my body. Rain in my mind. Rain in my fle…
Your Process Requires Practice
While I was talking to one of my studnets one day she disrespected me. I was a Christian but her disrespect was so deep that I started to think like my old self. I wanted to cuss her out. But I didn't.
When I got a hold of myself I whispered to God…
Join our community and receive Tricia-Anne's show notes, blog articles, resources, courses and more.
Listen On
